Many guys think they have to spring for fancy dinners or entertainment to impress a woman, but it's always best to keep the first date short, casual and low-key. You want to get to know her, not pay for her attention.
To decide a place to meet is very important. A good plan is to meet at a coffee shop, lunch place, or quiet bar. Find a place where the two of you can have a conversation to see if any sparks fly. This is the perfect opportunity to make use of your dating skills so here are some points worth noting. Keep your focus on her, and try not using sexually-interested body language.
It's important to keep the first date short. Remember; you're busy, not desperate. So end the date early, even if it's going well.
Here are some great Date Ideas
You can go to a playground that's not in use and play. Also you can take along a picnic lunch, baseball, bat or some outdoor toys. Have a great lunch after playtime.
Take your date to an art museum or art gallery or art festival. Get together huge sheets of paper and pens, or charcoal, or crayons or watercolors. After, return home (or go to a park with a picnic table or other location) and create your own artwork to mark a romantic memory
Its spring! Then a botanical garden, arboretum or a community garden can be a great place to visit, especially in the spring. Take a camera, snap pictures of each other frolicking through the foliage.
You can go for local, small theaters, not just movies every time. Sometimes the plays are excellent and some are just plain entertaining.
If your date is interested then check out your local museums - there are history museums or nature museums or aeronautical or sports museums tucked away in an area near you.
You can pick one era upon which to concentrate while you're at the museum. Then find a video or movie set in the same time-frame to watch after your museum tour.
Flowers have always been an important part of any romantic situation. A guy can give his girl flowers or he can send her a bouquet that reminds her of date.
Here are some other points worth to be noted.
Be careful for surprises. Try to avoid surprises like a hatchet movie, meal, etc. on the first date. Your date may be allergic to horror films - and you don't want to 'surprise' a vegetarian with a dinner of beef.
As the saying goes, respect time so time will respect you, be on time. Lateness is inconsiderate It reveals all sorts of things about your personality such as your passive-aggressive tendencies. If your date is late, be pleasant, and listen to their reason - it might be genuine.
If your date compliments you don't just brush it off or say something rude about yourself, say thank you and do not put yourself down.
Conversation is very important. It can be seen that most of the times people don't have any topic to speak on. If you're concerned about topics of conversation, be sure to read a newspaper or watch a news program that day so you're up on world events.
To decide a place to meet is very important. A good plan is to meet at a coffee shop, lunch place, or quiet bar. Find a place where the two of you can have a conversation to see if any sparks fly. This is the perfect opportunity to make use of your dating skills so here are some points worth noting. Keep your focus on her, and try not using sexually-interested body language.
It's important to keep the first date short. Remember; you're busy, not desperate. So end the date early, even if it's going well.
Here are some great Date Ideas
You can go to a playground that's not in use and play. Also you can take along a picnic lunch, baseball, bat or some outdoor toys. Have a great lunch after playtime.
Take your date to an art museum or art gallery or art festival. Get together huge sheets of paper and pens, or charcoal, or crayons or watercolors. After, return home (or go to a park with a picnic table or other location) and create your own artwork to mark a romantic memory
Its spring! Then a botanical garden, arboretum or a community garden can be a great place to visit, especially in the spring. Take a camera, snap pictures of each other frolicking through the foliage.
You can go for local, small theaters, not just movies every time. Sometimes the plays are excellent and some are just plain entertaining.
If your date is interested then check out your local museums - there are history museums or nature museums or aeronautical or sports museums tucked away in an area near you.
You can pick one era upon which to concentrate while you're at the museum. Then find a video or movie set in the same time-frame to watch after your museum tour.
Flowers have always been an important part of any romantic situation. A guy can give his girl flowers or he can send her a bouquet that reminds her of date.
Here are some other points worth to be noted.
Be careful for surprises. Try to avoid surprises like a hatchet movie, meal, etc. on the first date. Your date may be allergic to horror films - and you don't want to 'surprise' a vegetarian with a dinner of beef.
As the saying goes, respect time so time will respect you, be on time. Lateness is inconsiderate It reveals all sorts of things about your personality such as your passive-aggressive tendencies. If your date is late, be pleasant, and listen to their reason - it might be genuine.
If your date compliments you don't just brush it off or say something rude about yourself, say thank you and do not put yourself down.
Conversation is very important. It can be seen that most of the times people don't have any topic to speak on. If you're concerned about topics of conversation, be sure to read a newspaper or watch a news program that day so you're up on world events.
By Dhananjay Kulkarni
Published: 8/8/2004
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